Zoe Clews, a Senior Qualified Hypnotherapist, Emotional Wellbeing Specialist & Founder of Zoe Clews & Associates gives us the low down.
Interesting question eh? Perhaps one you’ve never asked yourself as you might not be displaying any obvious sign that your emotional wellbeing is at risk.
However, for a great many people (maybe even you), their lifestyle is anything but normal and creates unnecessary risks.
We live in an increasingly adrenalised society which has become the new ‘normal’. But hitting life hard and fast and living off the buzz of adrenalin is arguably just as dangerous to your health as ‘real’ drugs and can lead to burn out and serious mental health problems that start with stress and anxiety but can, if left unchecked, develop into full-blown depression.
And in the end, both can kill you.
Physical illness can result from chronic stress and the fact we’re living increasingly unnatural, adrenalin-driven lifestyles (often fuelled by relentless digital addiction) is only adding to the problem. For many, alcohol is an antidote to stress, anxiety and depression but this simply exacerbates those conditions.
Addiction to work and the drive to succeed are often prioritised over our own wellbeing too and I call this the domino effect:
You overwork and over-give; you drink to relax or get to sleep as your mind is in overdrive; you sleep terribly because you
drank too much or are full of cortisol and adrenalin; you can’t get up so you fill yourself with coffee/sugary food; then you crash and so you work later to make up the time; then you can’t sleep again.
And so it goes on and on. You feel rubbish but you push on through because that’s what’s expected – not by anyone else, but by you.
And then something else happens that tips you over the edge such as bereavement and suddenly you are plunged into anxiety, depression or panic. Because the foundations of your mental wellbeing have already been weakened and made more fragile by the excesses of your lifestyle, your mental health has started to fray.
My advice is to be gentle with yourself – find 5 things that bring you joy and aren’t reliant on indulgence, money or validation. They should make you feel good without any kind of guilt hangover the next day – such as spending more time outdoors, switching off your phone and saying ‘no’ more often. In fact, anything that helps bring down that adrenalin!
So, before you diagnose yourself with a mental health issue, ask yourself: do I have a mental health problem, or is it my lifestyle?
For more information, please see:
www.zoeclews-hypnotherapy.co.uk
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